Rebecca says, “I feel weak after every orgasm. Do I have POIS? What can I do about that?”

Taunya says, “My friend is not sexually attracted to her husband, but wants a godly marriage. It doesn’t help that her husband has ED, on top of weight loss issues.”

Sex therapy helps individuals and couples enhance sexual fulfillment and/or resolve sexual conflicts and problems. Solutions can vary from simple education to more extensive counseling around complex or longstanding issues. Strategies are tailored to the goals of the individual or couples seeking help.

Rose asks, “How do I identify sexual desire? After thinking sex was dirty for my entire life, and shutting down thoughts of it, how do I recognize it now?” Read more to find out what Licensed Counselor and Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock says about how to navigate sexual desire.

“My friend is in a long distance relationship. Should my friend’s fiancé set on the phone with his mom for hours while they spend time?”

“How do you maintain intimacy in marriage when she is not physically attracted to him, or how do you regain the attraction?”

Amy says, “My husband has a porn addiction. How long should I stay in the marriage? He is unwilling to change.” Read more to find out what Licensed Therapist Josh Spurlock says about pornography addiction, and how to move forward in your marriage.

Nick has lost many friends in the past years due to them choosing to spend their time elsewhere. His small childhood church is also on a decline and few folks attend who are his age.

“How do I go about finding a Christian Sex Therapist?” Read more to find out what relationship expert Josh Spurlock has to say about what a Christian Sex Therapist is and how to find one.

Recovery after an affair is a marathon – NOT a sprint. If you don’t take care of you – EVERYTHING gets harder. If you are going to survive the affair, whether or not your marriage does, you are going to have to be super disciplined about taking care of yourself. Taking care of yourself through the journey gives you the best shot at a positive outcome.

Shelly asked “Is it possible for women who have only had an orgasm with a vibrator to have one during intercourse? How can one work on this?”

Patricia says, “My husband went to heaven three years ago. We had sex 1-3 times a day. I want that again, but I’m not married.” Read more to find out what Josh Spurlock, Counselor & Sex Therapist, says about grieving the loss of your lover, navigating sexual desire as a widow, and how to lean on trusted friends in your life as you grieve.