Pain and suffering are inevitable parts of the human experience. As Jesus Himself said, “In this world you will have trouble” (John 16:33). However, while pain and suffering are unavoidable, trauma can often be mitigated or healed through effective intervention. In this episode, we explore how trauma works and how we can prevent pain and suffering from becoming traumatic, both for ourselves and for those we care about. We’ll also delve into strategies for helping someone in crisis to stabilize and find healing.
Trauma occurs when our nervous system is overwhelmed and we cannot organize our experience. In essence, trauma is not just the pain we experience but our inability to process that pain due to a lack of internal or external resources. When pastors and counselors are called to assist in crisis situations, their goal is to stabilize the individual and prevent the pain from embedding as trauma.
Trauma develops when an individual’s nervous system is dysregulated to the point of being overwhelmed. This dysregulation can occur when the person lacks the necessary resources to manage and make sense of their experience. It’s not just the event itself but our response to it that determines whether it becomes traumatic.
Preventing trauma involves two primary goals: regulating the nervous system and organizing the experience. Here’s how you can help someone achieve these goals:
To prevent trauma, it’s crucial to help the individual return to a state of calm and safety. This involves several steps:
Check the Environment: Ensure the person is physically safe and aware of their safety. Encourage them to observe their surroundings and confirm that there are no immediate threats.
Grounding Techniques: Help the person ground themselves by focusing on their physical sensations, like feeling the support of the chair beneath them and their feet on the ground.
Breathing Exercises: Guide them through deep, slow breathing exercises to activate the ventral vagal state, promoting a sense of calm.
Ensure the person has access to basic needs such as safety, shelter, food, water, and clothing.
Confirm their immediate plans, ensuring they have a safe place to go and support from trusted individuals.
Nutrition: Encourage regular, balanced meals to support physical health.
Sleep: Stress the importance of adequate sleep for healing and stress management.
Exercise: Recommend regular physical activity to help manage stress hormones.
Rest and Fun: Advise taking it easy, engaging in relaxing and enjoyable activities.
Journaling: Suggest daily journaling to process thoughts and emotions.
Social Connection: Emphasize the importance of staying connected with safe friends and family, sharing their experiences, and avoiding isolation.
Once the person is regulated, help them organize their experience:
Share the Story: Encourage the person to articulate what happened, sharing the facts as they remember them.
Explore Emotions: Ask how they are feeling and how the event has impacted them.
Validate Feelings: Normalize their emotional responses, affirming that their feelings make sense given the circumstances.
Reflect on Experience: Help the person notice and name their feelings and experiences, facilitating a coherent narrative.
Collaborate on Insights: Work together to identify losses and process associated grief.
While pain and suffering are inevitable parts of life, trauma can be prevented and healed through understanding and intervention. By regulating the nervous system and organizing experiences, we can transform overwhelming pain into manageable and even growth-inducing experiences.
Integrating both neuroscience and biblical wisdom offers a profound approach to healing, ensuring that individuals are supported holistically in their journey. If you or someone you know is struggling with trauma or navigating a challenging season, consider reaching out to a Christian counselor at MyCounselor.Online. Their faith-based, neuroscience-informed approach can provide the support and guidance needed to find healing and peace.
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