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Father’s Day is a time to honor and appreciate the men in our lives who have embraced the role of fatherhood with love, dedication, and sacrifice. It is also an opportunity to reflect on the deeper spiritual dimensions of fatherhood, particularly how it mirrors the heart of our Heavenly Father. Today, we will explore how fathers reveal God’s love and character to their children, the honor and responsibility bestowed upon them, and the importance of community in nurturing godly fathers.
For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. (Romans 8:14-16 NLT)
James 1:27 tells us, “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” Those who care for orphans embody the Father’s heart. They reveal a unique aspect of God’s love—His willingness to adopt us into His family (Ephesians 1:5). By honoring those who care for orphans, we acknowledge their role in teaching us about God’s boundless compassion and grace.
God has shared with us some of His communicable attributes, one of which is the ability to create life. Through the union of marriage, fathers participate in God’s creative work, bringing eternal beings into existence—children who have a beginning but no end. This creative act is a profound honor and responsibility. Psalm 127:3 states, “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.”
Fathers are privileged to reveal God’s character to their children. Just as God is described as a loving Father in Scriptures (Psalm 103:13), earthly fathers are called to reflect this love. From the first moments of a child’s life, as they gaze into their father’s eyes, they see joy, love, and delight—mirroring the joy our Heavenly Father has for us. Before children achieve anything, they are loved simply because they are created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27).
Fathers serve as a mirror to their children, reflecting back their worth and value as seen by God. Words of affirmation and acts of love help children understand their identity in Christ and their inherent value. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” Our response to their failures and shortcomings reveals the grace and mercy God extends to us.
Matthew 7:1-5 teaches us that the measure of grace and mercy we extend to others will be the measure used for us. As fathers, it is essential to be full of grace and mercy, reflecting the Father’s forgiveness and patience. Our children need to see God’s unconditional love through our actions, especially in times of disappointment or frustration.
For many, reflecting God’s character can be challenging, especially if they did not have a father who modeled these attributes. This is where the family of God plays a crucial role. Titus 2:2-4 encourages older men to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in faith, love, and endurance. Older men in the church are vital in mentoring younger fathers, filling the gaps, and speaking life into them.
Professional counseling, like that offered by MyCounselor.Online, can be instrumental in helping fathers overcome challenges and gaps that hinder their ability to be the fathers they aspire to be. Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) integrates biblical principles with cutting-edge psychological practices to address emotional and relational issues deeply and effectively. By engaging in this type of counseling, fathers can work through past traumas, develop healthier relational patterns, and strengthen their spiritual lives, equipping them to reflect God’s love and character more fully to their children. This support can make a significant difference in a father’s ability to navigate the complexities of parenthood with grace and resilience.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 speaks to the strength found in companionship. Fathers need other men in their same station of life for support, encouragement, and accountability. Together, they can spur each other on to love their wives well and disciple their children faithfully.
Older men, your role in the community is indispensable. Your experiences and wisdom are treasures for younger fathers who seek to reflect God’s character. Your investment in them can bring about healing and growth, helping them become the fathers God intends them to be.
To all fathers, remember that you have been highly honored by God to reveal who He is to your children. Seek out older men who can mentor you and brothers who can journey with you. Be a father who accurately reflects God’s love and character. And always remember the orphans among you, embodying the Father’s love to them as well.
As we celebrate Father’s Day, let us honor and pray for all fathers, thanking God for their role in our lives. Let us also commit to supporting and encouraging them as they strive to reflect the heart of our Heavenly Father. May we all grow in understanding and embodying the love, grace, and mercy that God so generously lavishes upon us.
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